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You are seen. Your pain is real.
You are not alone. 


My Story

In the video below I share some of my story of betrayal and why I created a resource to help betrayed women experience hope again. Take a few minutes and watch it now.

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3 Keys to Help You Overcome the Trauma of Betrayal

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Understanding Betrayal Trauma

Establishing Proper Expectations

Developing a Plan to Heal 

What You Can Expect from the Life Beyond Betrayal Course:

  •  You will receive 1 audio topic each lesson.
  •  Each lesson will have a brief homework assignment.
  •  You will have a worksheet to process your emotions.
  •  A coloring page for each lesson helps you practice mindfulness.
  •  You will learn to survive and thrive in spite of your current circumstances.
  •  You will have access to a community of women who have a similar story.

What They Are Saying...

"At first my husband showed signs of emotional abuse, then I learned of his affair. My husband had been cheating on me for months. His infidelity and my lack of trust ripped our family in two. After the divorce, I was devastated and angry. Melody's course was life giving and restored my faith."  

- Jane

"I was encouraged in being allowed to feel the range of emotions that I needed to feel and that it didn’t make me a bad person because I was feeling sad or angry, or because I couldn’t move on super quickly from all the emotions..."  

- Ashley

"Having a tactical resource when I felt hopeless from someone who had walked this journey before me was huge for me. There were days of sadness and depression where my friends and my family couldn't relate or understand my conflicting emotions. This healing program helped me take my next breath and keep moving."  

- Brandi

"Melody created something just for me. She didn't encourage me to focus on reconciliation or focus on divorce, she just encouraged me to focus on me; my heart, my emotions, and my recovery after this nightmare. The certainty that I had something daily to get me through each day with so much uncertainty after betrayal was huge for me so that I could survive and begin 'living' again."  

- Stephanie

"It changed everything knowing I was not alone in the mess in my life...also, having the constant reassurance that it was NOT my fault and it had nothing to do with me as a woman, my looks, my was strictly someone else’s choices..."  

- Cindy

"Knowing I was not alone in the mess my life was in was a life ring for me...and having someone who has been through it and I could trust to know exactly what I needed next when I didn't know what my next step would be was life giving."  

- Michelle


About the Author

Melody Lovvorn

Eight years into marriage, Melody’s life looked perfect on the outside: four happy children under the age of six; a career as a fitness instructor; serving in her local church and community with an amazing husband by her side…until she was completely blindsided by her husband’s struggle with pornography and the discovery of his infidelity.  

In the midst of the chaos, Melody discovered that going into and through her pain was the only way out of the pain. She reluctantly chose to embark upon a personal journey of healing and personal self-discovery.  

Life Beyond Betrayal Lessons Include:

  •  You Are Not Alone
  • It's Not Your Fault
  • Dealing With Shame
  • Triggers
  • Disclosure
  • Boundaries
  •  Emotional Roller Coasters
  •  Coping with Deception
  •  Obstacles to Healing
  •  Unpacking Trauma
  •  Courage: Your Superpower
  •  ...and many more!